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Julie Dailey's avatar

I woke up and saw you message here it’s early here 5 am . It’s very refreshing to read. I am a day away from 55Th Birthday. We are of the same page. I too feel that i should be living a more meaningful life. I love your thoughts. I spent the first part of my life pleasing others and now it’s time to make my life more meaningful. So I love the fact that reference Thomas Merton. So keep doing this sort of writing. I find a sense of peace in your writing and common sense if that makes a difference. You know they say God drops those little nuggets of goodness when you need them. Thank you for spiritual message you’re on the right path. Julie D

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

Happy Birthday Julie!! Thank you your kind words ... it does make a difference to know that so thanks for sharing.

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vj's avatar

...at 67, i'm in the "last quarter of life" so your email hits home / 'love the focus of these writings - congrats on Divinity School and praying for wisdom as you head down that road(s) of discernment

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Ken Z's avatar

I'm in Kirsten. Liked this breath of fresh air this morning! Let's go!

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Evelyn's avatar

I’m 55 in less than a month, and these are all *very* topical for me. I can’t wait to read what you have to say on these issues. And I especially look forward to reading about your experience at Yale Div - I have a friend who used to teach there. Thank you for your courage, and I’m excited to go on this journey with you!

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John Ruggeri's avatar

Dear Ms. Powers, I am 58 years old and I live for your newsletter and this one certainly doesn’t disappoint. I adore how you weave your words and thoughts and find them truly inspiring. I currently find myself at a crossroads and I don’t want to find myself on my deathbed thinking I’ve never made an impact in this life.

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

so glad you are here!

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Dr. G's avatar

Kirsten, I was never drawn to you for your political views; in fact, I disagreed with many of your political views. Instead, I was drawn to you for your clarity of thinking and writing opinions that, regardless of whether or not I believed in them, I respected and came to admire your stance on issues. 

The second half of life is to leverage the wisdom we attained through life's experiences, lessons learned, and the valuable things life threw in the path that allowed us to see there is more to life. My quote for my second half of life is, "I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not when I came to die, discover that I had not lived" Henry David Thoreau. Bill Mahr says now more than ever, we get wiser as we age. I think he is on to something!

Some are lucky to arrive at such wisdom early in life, though they are outliers and blessed to have that wisdom and discovery. But, to answer one of your questions below, there is always time. Morgan Freedmen didn't get his first acting break until he was 50. I am 56 and still hopeful, LOL! 

You say you have only shown us a "tiny" part of you, but given your clarity of writing and communication, I think you reveal more than you maybe realize. Your integrity, principles, and values come through, even if they have a political slant. I wish I could the same thing about some of my family and friends, who sometimes express beliefs contrary to Christian and Judaic values. 

Sign me up for your journey; I call shotgun! :-)

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

I love that Thoreau quote! welcome aboard :-)

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Kathy Katz's avatar

I am so excited for you-- and gotta say, this isn't a surprise to me at all, and I LOVE that you have shifted "political" ideas to something that feels more human. GOOD ON YA!!! My daughter is at Yale (undergrad), so if you go, don't be surprised if a random 60 year old woman sees you on campus and throws her arms around you. I'll try to restrain myself and maybe just shout a "thank you." Very much looking forward to your journey. (And yes you can be spiritual if you don't like religion or believe in God, says I.)

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

haha i love hugs! :-)

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Kathy Katz's avatar

Consider yourself warned ❤️ 🥰

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Neil Hansen's avatar

I will happily join you on your journey. I have been on a bit of a similar (I believe, think, hope) journey and am excited to hear of yours. Bishop Robert Barron speaks in the linked sermon of leaving behind the ego-drama for the Theo-drama. It struck a cord with me and may with you as well. https://www.wordonfire.org/videos/sermons/give-up-the-ego-drama/

God bless.

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Shawn T's avatar

Wow! I did come here for your political acuity but just retired not long ago (from my identity?) which, if that's not a 2nd life, I'm not sure what is. I don't know if that's even comparable but you definitely have my attention! Your articles have always been insightful so I'm very interested in seeing where you take this and learn more. Thank you!!!

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

Thank you Shawn and congrats on retiring--glad to have you on this journey with me. Moving away from the ego based identity is hard but i think the most rewarding thing you will ever do. Thanks for being here!

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Anne Mccormac's avatar

Have loved your writing and excited to see what comes next. I’m very interested in this topic and I’m trying to find out how to live a soul-aligned life. Best of luck!

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

Thank you Anne! Happy you are up for this journey :-)

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Emily McDowell's avatar

Ahhh, congratulations on divinity school!!! My partner read the second half of your Italy newsletter today and said to me “I’ve never read anyone’s story that feels more aligned with your experience.” (So thank you.) All those things are what’s inspired/forced/convinced/required me to make similar life changes to yours. I’m in Martha Beck’s coaching program right now and I’m not sure what I’ll do with it either... but I know what I WON’T do. :)

Congratulations, too, on listening to your authentic self and stepping away from writing about politics, and into this new season of life for yourself. It takes so much guts to abandon an area of expertise (and identity!) that you know will resonate with the audience you spent many years building. I’m so here for this!

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

Wow good for you! I actually decided to not go to Divinity School for a variety of reasons. I feel pulled in a different connection. Your support means so much to me — I’ll be honest it was a scary leap. I wondered if anyone would care about what I have to say in f it wasn’t about politics and/or not through a big brand like CNN or USA Today. To have someone like you who I’ve admired from afar say this feels so good! ty 💜

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Emily McDowell's avatar

Aw, thank you so much! 🩷

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Sally French Wessely's avatar

Go for it. I’m here for all you have to write.

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Alex's avatar

well. I signed up for life. so I am not saying goodbye. I like how you carried yourself on CNN, and spoke or wrote here in this forum. Personally I am glad we are unleashing the topics list and not focusing on politics - so much more to life we all can have fun discussing. :) ....... as for the second half of life. I agree with what you wrote for the most part. For me, I do think better this second half or last quarter than I thought and acted when 20, 25. ... unfortunately I had issues I did not see. Not terrible issues, I just did not prioritize correctly. I put myself first sometimes = a lot. I can happily say around 34 I started to overcome them ( better late, than never ) and began being a better father and person. Now I feel even better than when 34 - knowing LOVE is the answer has a lot to do with it ...... Oddly enough earlier today I saw a young father walking behind his three maybe four year old son on an electric tractor ( for a child ) it got me thinking I was not the best father when it came to that. Good, but not as good as I should have been. ( Time moved on and I found myself a career, good pay = which helped because I was able to share easier with the bills paid on time ). Any way after a bit of thinking more on this. I ran the years and came to the happy conclusion that; I am "that" father now and have been for awhile. A better person. More importantly, "that grandfather" So again, I agree with you about life's second half, and luckily mine is better every day ..... I don't know about the EGO stuff, I need more time to reflect to share an answer..... However I'm not RELIGIOUS but I do believe in the human spirit, and the wish for all to be happy and at their best.... Congrats on being able to change horses in mid stream before its too late and do something differently with this that you like. Thank you for being straight with us here. Lastly Kirsten, please know I'm in for the long haul. ... Alex.

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

wow at 34 you figured that out -- that's impressive. took me MUCH longer lol.

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Alex's avatar

Well at 34 and a father of two young boys. I became a single man. My ex-wife, though in the boy's lives now, was kinda absent for some time back then. I became a single parent and had to step up to the plate and raise my kids. ... I can honestly say that my two sons saved my life. plus I had a good teacher, my mom. I just forgot for awhile what she showed me.

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susan thornton's avatar

Thank you Kirsten - brilliant and I'm right there with you questioning everything. Even have had thoughts of going to divinity school myself. As a leader of a small, international nonprofit it has always felt like a "calling". However, recently I'm asking questions about the nonprofit model and how life sucking it is to be always groveling for money and being asked to prove how we use the money without investing in people or infrastructure. Where to go from here I have no idea - and I look forward to joining you on this adventure! Let's Go!

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Matt Stine's avatar

I am so excited for you Kirsten. I am going through a similar time of letting go of so many things that made up my first-half of life and moving on to what I believe is going to be a beautifully rich second-half of life. Every word of what you’ve written here resonated with me deeply, and I can’t wait to see what comes next.

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Cheryl D's avatar

Thank you Kirsten for this wonderful post today. It was exactly what I needed to hear and gives me hope. I think I am one of those individuals that “entered the second half of life” at a young age, but sadly, it was by default, to survive the loss of career at the onset of the age of 40..a devastating loss brought on by “successful ego systems thru a local institution” with intentional harm to myself. I am 62 now, hard to believe, I have suffered this long. It is on my bucket list to confront the Dean of the college (now Emeritus Dean) where I graduated with high honors, on why she responded to a letter from me with such vengeance that was irrelevant to my request, and copied a major employer where I had good reviews from teachers and awaiting a contract position to open up, and to send a letter that guaranteed I would never get hired. My American dream turned into a nightmare. I want that Dean and the college to know where I came from and the sacrifices I made to get a B.S. degree at age 40.

Anyway, thanks for reading this, and for your new blog. I look forward to reading that Americans can have different meanings of success and be your own person without being punished for it. I have always had a strong personality, but it hasn’t served me well unfortunately. In hindsight, I should have moved away, but I was recently married by then and still am, the first time in my life I had a family, so I chose family over moving. I can’t believe I am even writing all this today as I am so weak from an ailment that has just come upon me, this past weekend, and trying to get my strength back. Reading your new direction will help validate a lot of people of don’t always go with the status quo of just plain crap. Thank you and best wishes on your post. I signed up for the annual paid post and glad to do it! Peace and joy to you always Kirsten. I don’t know anything about being successful, never given the chance, but I do know about damaging systems that hurt people that don’t deserve that.

PS I am a private person and I would prefer not to post my full name in this post.

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Kirsten Powers's avatar

Sheryl-- I know a lot about struggling and feeling hopeless so I hope that you will find inspiration and hope here.

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